Use Boldness, but not Overbearance

Alma 38:11-12—“See that ye are not lifted up unto pride; yea, see that ye do not boast in your own wisdom, nor of your much strength.

12 Use boldness, but not overbearance; and also see that ye bridle all your passions, that ye may be filled with love; see that ye refrain from idleness.”

The 38^th chapter of Alma is one of my favorites because it contains so many precious yet simple teachings that can impact our lives greatly if we apply the commandments Alma teaches exhorts son Shiblon to keep. Verse 11 reads, “See that ye are not lifted up unto pride…”. Pride is the beginning of all problems. We are continually encouraged by prophets of God to avoid pride and stay humble.

Verse 12 contains several guidelines for molding our character into something closer to Christ’s. What does it mean to use boldness, but not overbearance? I once served as a full-time missionary in the greatest mission ever; the Taiwan, Taipei mission. Many missionaries have the responsibility to use boldness and not overbearance on a daily and even hourly basis. A bold missionary humbly bears testimony and gives as many people as they can an opportunity to feel the spirit. An overbearing missionary tends to force others to listen and neglects their opinions, beliefs and needs. This principle is applicable to “civilian” (non-missionary… even though every member is a missionary) life in our relationships with others. We must respect others. Yes, we must always stand for what is right and do good things and all of that, but this must never lead to attacking someone personally.

I know that as we diligently the teachings in these short verses along with the countless teachings found throughout a study of the Book of Mormon, we can become better people, we will be “filled with love” and create a safer and happier environment to be in.